Sunday, September 22, 2013

Side-to-Side


I’ve got rhythm. When I listen to music I catch myself bobbing my head or moving side-to-side. I guess I’ve got the music in me! But going side-to-side isn’t always a good thing especially if it means I can’t seem to walk a straight line. The world can influence us to stay in a rhythm of going side-to-side instead of moving forward.

I know a woman who at 50 years old decided to live the party lifestyle and because of it eventually lost her husband and children. The reason? Her mother and grandmother died of Alzheimer’s and she saw no reason not to party since she will probably have the disease too. Her gain was a ruined marriage, messy divorce and two sons who are ashamed of their mother.

That woman started moving side-to-side. She didn’t move forward to appreciate what she had or look ahead to overcome the things that frightened her. Instead, she moved side-to-side with alcohol and a lot of one-night stands, digging a rut deeper and deeper.

James 1:19-21 says, “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.”

The rut we make going side-to-side can make a big dip in the road. We need to stop that motion, take a few steps to gain momentum, run and jump over that rut! If we listen to our hearts and make decisions slowly and thoughtfully we will not give in to worldly suggestions. Then, move forward with a lifestyle that is not self-centered. Make choices that don’t allow you to move side-to-side.

 …Unless you are dancing to the music.

Sherree Fischer
loveSTRONG ministries
Speaker/Facilitator Team Leader

Monday, September 9, 2013

Be Like Me

I recently attended a women’s conference intended to inspire and encourage. My best girlfriend and I packed our bags with as many girly, pampering items as we could fit. As mamas to kids under age 7, we planned to maximize our fun with grown up meals, accessories that wouldn’t be tugged or chewed and even face masks and hair color for do-it-yourself mommy makeovers. I was ready to be transformed inside and out!

Yet I came away feeling a bit overwhelmed. The main speaker’s ideas sounded beautiful and peaceful, effective and life-giving…for her. I didn’t catch the conflict at first but as I listened to woman after woman tell me she was overwhelmed by the speaker, I realized that instead of allowing ourselves to be inspired, we were choosing to compare. God didn’t intend for us to be the same as the mommy or wife or friend next door. He didn’t design a human race of clones. Instead He gifted us each uniquely – from the color of our hair (even that gray I was trying in vain to hide) to the things that inspire us or bring peace to our busy lives. My cup of tea on the beach may be your hot coffee on a mountaintop. Yet as women, we are so good at comparing and coveting instead of embracing who God made us to be. In a world of Facebook and Pinterest, there is always something else to aspire to. How many times do we add extra stress in our lives when we compare ourselves to others or try to live up to the 15 word Facebook post someone has shared about her life? The only One we should be trying to become more like is Jesus!

In Psalm 139, the Bible tells us that God knit us together in our mothers’ wombs. He created us uniquely in His image. This doesn’t mean I shouldn’t work on my areas of weakness nor that I should have pride in other areas of strength, but rather that all glory goes to Him and all strength in my weakness comes from Him. Embrace who you are and make it count for the Kingdom.

“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.” Ephesians 4:10

Lynette Chang
Writer